Dealing with anxiety in your 30s
Anxiety in Your 30s: The Fear of Not Being Enough Anxiety in Your 30s: The Fear of Not Being Enough When you hit your 30s, you're supposed to have it all figured out, right? A stable job, a long-term relationship, a mortgage, a clear sense of purpose. But for many of us, that’s far from reality. And instead of feeling grounded, we feel anxious. Not the occasional nerves kind of anxious—but the heavy, everyday kind that sits on your chest like a weight you can't shake off. I know this feeling well, because I’ve lived it. My Story: The Quiet Panic Behind a “Good Life” A few years ago, I found myself constantly overwhelmed—even though, on paper, my life looked great. I had a decent job, a steady income, and a supportive partner. But inside, I felt like a fraud. I woke up most days already worried. Worried I was behind. That I hadn't done enough with my life. That everyone else my age was somehow racing ahead while I was stuck. The anx...